Tuesday, February 28, 2017

What's in a Name?

When I began my school counseling career, I was Ms. Stromberg.  No one ever mispronounced it and it was easy enough for my 5th graders to remember.  For three years I was called by my maiden name and it wasn't until I was applying for a marriage license, that I realized how much of a change it is for women in the education field to change their name.

So I married a guy with the last name Flier.  Looks like it should describe one who flies, but it does not.  Fl-ee-r.  "Like the baseball cards", was the way I described it at my interviews.  "Rhymes with the beloved beverage of Wisconsin", I emailed my new elementary school when I began.  To students, I told them it rhymes with "cheer".

Then, I had a Kindergarten teacher who dubbed me "Mrs. Flier who brings good cheer" whenever I enter the classroom and since then, the name has stuck - with the Kinders anyway. :)  How fitting is that for a school counselor?  Isn't that the definition of what we hope to do - bring good cheer?

I hope to blog ideas I've come across, share what's worked for me and what has not, and organize the school counseling program I have here at Willow.  I am so fortunate to work with five other elementary counselors who are ROCK STARS, a team of teachers who are supportive of the role of a counselor, and an administrator who "gets" what a school counselor does.  I am blessed.